From the North:

Option 1: New Jersey Turnpike South to the Garden State Parkway, Exit 11, Shore Points
Garden State Parkway south to exit 102 Asbury Park
Follow Asbury Ave/Route 66 approximately 5 miles to Asbury Park.
Follow the signs for Asbury Park once you get off the parkway.
You will come to the Asbury Park traffic circle with the Coca-Cola Company building. Bear left then right partially around the circle onto Asbury Avenue. The Coca-Cola building will be on your right.
Turn right at the Coca Cola building.
Proceed east on Route 66/Asbury Avenue until you reach Ocean Avenue.
Turn left on Ocean Avenue. Paramount Theatre/Convention Hall is on your right at the end of the Asbury Park boardwalk.

Option 2: Route 18 to Route 66 East
Take the NJ Turnpike to Route 18 South, Shore Points - NJ Turnpike Exit 9 (New Brunswick)
Take Route 18 South to Route 66 East Asbury Park.
Note: Route 18 is a local road in East Brunswick, with traffic lights but turns into a highway once you are out of East Brunswick
Exit at Route 66 East toward Asbury Park.
You will come to the Asbury Park traffic circle with the Coca-Cola Company building. Bear left then right partially around the circle onto Asbury Avenue. The Coca-Cola building will be on your right.
Turn right at the Coca Cola building.
Proceed east on Route 66/Asbury Avenue until you reach Ocean Avenue.
Turn left on Ocean Avenue. Paramount Theatre/Convention Hall is on your right at the end of the Asbury Park boardwalk.

From the South:

Garden State Parkway North to exit 100-A Asbury Park.
Follow Route 66/Asbury Avenue approximately 6 miles to Asbury Park.

From the West & Philadelphia area :
NJ Turnpike north to exit 7A.
Follow I-195 east to Route 18 North.
Take Route 18 North and exit at Route 66/Asbury Park.
Follow signs for Asbury Park.

Via Mass Transit:

Train from New York City or North Jersey / Newark Penn Station
North Jersey Coast Line train to the Asbury Park station.
Approximate time from NY Penn Station is 1 hour 50 minutes.
All train schedules are available from NJ Transit
The North Jersey Coast Train Schedule is available here
Bus from Port Authority, New York
Academy Bus Service will bring you into Asbury Park. Check their web site at http://www.academybus.com for more details.

Bus from Philadelphia and various NJ Points

NJ Transit's 317 bus departs the Greyhound Terminal at 10th & Filbert and arrives at the Asbury Park train station.
All bus schedules are available from NJ Transit
The NJ Transit 317 Bus line schedule is availble here
The NJ Transit 830 Bus Line from NJ Shore points is available here
The NJ Transit 832 Bus Line from Monmouth and Ocean County is available here
The NJ Transit 836 Bus Line from Freehold and other Monmouth County points is available here
The NJ Transit 837 Bus Line from Long Branch and other Monmouth/Ocean County points is available here